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Rewrite the Script · Direction and the next step

When God Says Walk: Stop Waiting for Confidence and Move in Faith

Carole Mendoza 5 min read

Are you waiting on God, or waiting to feel ready? Sometimes God has already given the direction and we're still standing still.

A woman walking a sunlit path with the words This is the way, walk in it, Isaiah 30:21

There are seasons when God tells us to wait, and waiting can require tremendous faith. We see that throughout Scripture. Sometimes there is absolutely nothing we can do except trust God, remain faithful, and wait for Him to move.

But I think there's another kind of waiting we don't talk about nearly as much. It's what happens when God has already given us direction, but we're still standing there waiting because we don't feel ready to move.

We tell ourselves we're waiting on God, but maybe we're actually waiting for confidence. We're waiting for the fear to go away, for someone else to agree with us, for the money to show up, for the circumstances to make sense, or for God to give us enough information that obedience no longer feels risky.

I've done this. Maybe you have too.

That's why Isaiah 30:21 has become such an important picture of faith for me:

"Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, 'This is the way; walk in it.'"

There are two parts to that verse that I don't want to miss. First, I need to be listening for God's direction. But once He gives me that direction, there is something for me to do.

Walk.

Not understand everything. Not figure out exactly where the road ends. Not eliminate every possibility of failure. Listen, and then walk.

Waiting or Hesitating?

I absolutely believe in waiting on God. Scripture tells us to wait on the Lord, and there are seasons when waiting is obedience. But I've been thinking about this differently lately: waiting is obedience when God has told me to wait.

If He's already shown me the next step, continuing to stand still may not be waiting on God at all. It may simply be fear.

The difficult part is that fear can sound very spiritual. I'm still praying about it. I'm waiting for confirmation. I just don't have peace yet. I need God to show me what to do.

Sometimes those statements are completely legitimate. We should pray. We should seek God. We should be careful about running ahead of Him.

But there are other times when, if we're willing to dig beneath the surface, we've already received an answer. We simply don't like how much faith the answer requires.

Maybe God has shown you that it's time to start something, end something, have a conversation, make a change, apply for the opportunity, use the gift He's given you, forgive someone, serve somewhere, or take a step toward something He's been putting on your heart for years.

And you're still asking, God, what should I do?

Maybe He's already answered.

Faith Doesn't Require the Whole Map

I would love for God to give me the entire plan before I start walking. I'd like step one through step ten, along with the timeline, the budget, the people who will help me, the problems I'll encounter, and preferably some assurance about how everything turns out.

But that wouldn't require much faith.

Most of the time, God has not worked that way in my life. He has given me enough light for the step I'm standing in, and then I've had to trust Him for what comes after it.

That changes the question from "How is all of this going to work?" to "What is the next thing God has asked me to do?"

Those are very different questions.

The first one can leave me paralyzed because I may not have enough information to answer it. The second one usually gives me something I can actually do today.

Maybe I can't see how the whole thing comes together, but I can make the phone call. I can send the email. I can write the first page. I can schedule the meeting. I can research the opportunity. I can have the conversation I've been avoiding. I can prepare what God has already put in my hands.

That's walking.

So How Do We Actually Do This?

When I find myself stuck, I think there are a few practical questions that can help me determine whether I'm truly waiting on God or simply afraid to move.

First, ask: Has God already given me direction?

Before asking Him for another answer, go back to what you already know. What has God been consistently putting on your heart? What does Scripture already make clear? What have you been praying about that you keep coming back to?

Sometimes we don't need a new word. We need to obey the one we've already received.

Second, identify what you're actually waiting for.

This one requires some honesty. Am I waiting on God, or am I waiting to feel confident? Am I waiting for provision that I genuinely need before I can move, or am I waiting until there's no financial risk? Am I seeking wise counsel, or am I hoping someone will give me permission?

Naming what we're waiting for can reveal a lot.

Third, separate the next step from the final outcome.

God may not be asking you to build the entire thing today. He may simply be asking you to make one call. You don't have to know how the story ends to obey Him in the part you're living right now.

Ask yourself, "What can I do today with what God has already given me?"

Then do that.

Finally, give the results back to God.

This may be the hardest part because we want our obedience to guarantee a particular outcome. But my responsibility is to listen, obey, prepare, show up, serve with excellence, and remain willing to be redirected.

I cannot control the results.

And I'm beginning to understand how freeing that really is.

Rewrite the Script

Maybe the old script says, "I'll move when I feel confident."

The new script says, "I'll move when God says move."

Maybe the old script says, "I need to know how this is going to work."

The new script says, "I only need to know what God is asking me to do next."

Maybe the old script says, "What if I fail?"

The new script asks, "What would obedience look like today?"

I don't need confidence before I move. I don't need every question answered. I don't need to see the entire road ahead of me. I need to stay close enough to God to hear His voice and willing enough to move when He gives me direction.

I can listen carefully, move prayerfully, prepare well, serve with excellence, and make adjustments when He redirects me. Then I can leave the outcome where it belongs: with Him.

Isaiah 30:21 doesn't promise that I'll see the entire road.

It promises direction along the way.

"This is the way; walk in it."

So perhaps the question for today isn't, "God, will You please show me everything I need to know?"

Maybe it's much simpler:

"God, what have You already shown me, and what would it look like for me to walk in it today?"

Start with the main idea: What does God say about that? →

Carole Mendoza

Carole Mendoza

Christian life and business coach, speaker and author · Pooler, Georgia

Carole has coached, taught and spoken alongside people through seasons of growth, transition, leadership and change since 2019. She works one-on-one and with leaders and teams, in English and Spanish.

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